Balanced you say?
1. Newcastle ain't even a big team. Midtable Prem side who has no CL pedigree. Beat them trough a Rashford worldie and controlled the midfield better than in some other matches.
2. Atletico at home - deserved win. An unusually open Atletico, who could have been 0-2 up early, but lost the plot afterwards.
3. Mickey Mouse Cup vs a Madrid in dissaray and Xabi being the laughing stock of their dressing room. An open game with both sides trading blows, gets decided by a Raphinha deflected shot. Madrid could have equalised and probably won in the end.
The loses were clear as day, even if the scores vs Madrid or PSG don't paint the whole picture. We were outplayed.
You are heavily distorting reality.
- The only game we were truly outplayed was against PSG. You could also add this one against Atleti, but usually 'outplayed' means being dominated and unable to respond, rather than being caught by surprise
- We were open at the back against Chelsea, but we were causing them real problems as well before the red card with Ferran missing sitters. 11vs11 this is a different game, possibly a draw
- The loss against RM in the league was also balanced. They were slightly better, but nothing close to the hyperbole you insinuate
- 'Mickey mouse cup' is a silly excuse. Both teams want this, carried much more weight than the league game.
And we outplayed them
- Newcastle is evidently a big game. Orelse you should also exclude Chelsea and Atletico.
Double standards are not allowed here
All in all, 7 games, 3 of which we were clearly better than our opponents, 2 we were clearly worse, and 2 that were balanced 11v11
PS: you casually ignored the most important point, that the bad displays and defeats were during our bad early spell (except Atletico).
We will have at least 5-7 (depending on CL) more big games to judge. Beware you might end up biting your tongue