I understand
@malvolio's and
@Don Juan Laporta Estruch's point to an extent - though the former has put it across more forcefully and less diplomatically than I would (and am about to).
As
@MonteCuler says, it is very very sad that a young man (and his brother too) has died and his wife and three small children have lost their husband and father, of course it is.
However, malvolio is right about the wider concept of celebrity worship and footballers in general being selfish (I have talked a lot on here about how I hate it) and how other people die every minute of every day and don't receive the outpourings of grief that Jota (or any other celebrity) has.
For instance, I completely agree with this quote from Don:
'There have been thousands of deaths around the world whilst I typed this comment. Has anyone shed a tear for them? What makes them less worthy of compassion than Jota?'
But I can see both sides of it. As others have said (and something that I didn't always factor into account) when someone is famous, (some) people begin to identify with them more, people who are predisposed to that. This exposure effect isn't there with random, unknown strangers. If Joe Bloggs from across the road suddenly became famous tomorrow, I am sure he would gather a following. It's just the nature of things.
But essentially, both POV are right - it's tragic what is happening in parts of the world with war, and those people deserve a lot of sympathy, compassion and help. But that doesn't mean people cannot feel bad about Jota too - it isn't a competition or an either/or scenario. It's possible to feel bad about many things. I think any sensible person would agree it's terrible and tragic when any innocent person dies. I think Jota being newly married and having three small children has only intensified the compassion for him.
What I will say though is that malvolio has a point too if Jota was driving too fast. Everyone makes mistakes, but if he was driving too fast (I don't know if he was as not really followed this, just saying) then he was playing with fire. It's still tragic they died but we can be thankful other people weren't caught in it and didn't get injured or killed too (this is IF he was driving too fast, as I said). Remember in 2019 Jose Reyes was going at like 140mph? That is just asking to die and there can be no excuses for that. Jota won't have been going near that but if he was speeding then that's a risk people take for their lives and others.
But overall, yes - it is tragic a young man has lost his life, when he had a wife, children, good career and so much to live for. It would be tragic if he had none of those things too. And it's tragic when children die in Gaza or Ukraine. I personally have more compassion for kids who die of cancer or are in the Make-A-Wish foundation, or die in war, or the Texas flood victims, than adults like Jota, but that is just my personal viewpoint. It's possible to have sympathy for any innocent person who dies. It isn't a competition and - while I agree with malvolio in some aspects - I feel it's a little in poor taste to pile on when two young men have lost their lives.